Ok, ok, so things don’t quite happen that way any more, but with the majority of couples already living together prior to making the big leap into married life, engagement rings are no longer the source of anguish and concern for the man alone.  More often than not, this major purchase is made as a couple, which gives us girlies a perfect opportunity to ensure we do not end up with some monstrosity adorning our fingers for (theoretically) eternity!

There are a couple of basics to get straight before even beginning the search for the ring of your dreams; do you want new or antique? Platinum or yellow gold? Solitaire or cluster?  Diamond or coloured stones?  It is also probably wise to establish a definitive budget before you start shopping as, if your dream ring doesn’t come with your dream price tag, you can end up sorely disappointed.  However, once you have established some primary ground rules, you can start the fun part – SHOPPING! 

An engagement ring is a real opportunity to say something significant about yourself, but beware, you are intending to wear this ring day and night for the rest of your life, so choose your ring with care.  Colour, Cut, Colour, Clarity – these are the four main things you must consider when purchasing diamonds.

A solitaire is the classic engagement ring, and offers subtle style and sophistication.  By ensuring you get a high quality diamond (don’t forget ladies, it’s about quality NOT size in this game) you can have something seriously sparkly.

Clusters or groups are a step away from the norm, offering an opportunity for a little more individuality.  For a hassle free experience and a great price, online retailer Wedding Rings Direct offer an excellent service and extensive range, including the opportunity to try on sample rings in the comfort of your own home and a very competitive design service. 

If, like myself, you are all about the antonymous and the contrary, then there are some spectacularly ornate and decadent rings out there.  Whilst perhaps not strictly engagement territory, Dior do some truly amazing rings, statement pieces that will make you feel fantastic, and will definitely ensure you stand out from the crowd!  Just a word of warning, if you are going for an unusually shaped or large ring, don’t forget that the general idea is that you will, eventually, have a wedding ring to go with it –  leave a bit of space ladies!